1. Expect her to do her own thing often and without letting you know, at least at first. It’s not that you don’t matter; it’s just that she’s learned to love doing what she wants, when she wants, and without asking permission or informing anyone. Selama ni dia sll buat keputusan sendiri dan selesaikan mslh sendiri,jadi bila dia bt sesuatu xbg awak.. jgnlah terasa hati ya... 😊
2. She’ll probably want to take things slowly because she’ll not be used to all the attention. Don’t think she doesn’t like you enough, she probably likes you a lot; it’s just all new to her. Slow and steady.... perlahan2 la amik hati dia.. jgn cepat mengalah!! Beri dia masa utk terima awk..😆
3. Expect her friends to be overprotective of her and to be suspicious of you at first. They’re not used to her being with someone and they’ll want to make sure you’re the kind of guy who will treat her well. Bukan kwn2 tu nk pisahkan korg... tapi, kwn2 tulah org yg selalu bersama dia.. masa pergi jln2,beriadah,ke kelas dll.. skrg kwn2 tu cuba uji awak samaada layak utk jaga dia atau tidak!!! 😡
4. She have a hard time letting you do things for her. Try not to take this personally. She’s just used to taking care of herself and it’ll be hard for her to live in a world where she’s got someone else looking out for her in that way. Awak boleh je jadi romantik dgn offer pertolongan pada dia.. tapi, awak kena tahu seorg perempuan yg tabah dan independent seperti dia.. kadang2 rimas bila awak nk bt semua benda utk dia.. cth : drive her car, open the door for her etc.
5. Expect her to be stubborn, to always want things her way, and to fight you when she doesn’t get it. Don’t always give in to her, but do let her win sometimes. Hahah... keras kepala!!! Biasalah tu.. perempuan yg selama ini kesana ke sini sendiri tanpa ada teman lelaki mcm sy ni... agak keras kepala jgk la... sbb takut ditindas atau dibuli semasa membuat kerja.. like self-defence
6. She needs to be left alone often especially when you first start seeing each other and it should feel like she’s head over heels. Believe that she has more butterflies in her stomach than she knows what to do with, which is why she’ll need to compose herself. huahuahua.... i never experience this situation... what i know is that, she is no longer like she used to be.... nervousss kot..
7. Expect her to pull away from you, especially when she realizes how much she likes you. She’ll come back to you but she’ll need time to think her feelings through. Soal hati ini sukar dijangka... bila kita dh kenal seseorg tu.... bila dh ada chemistry.. dh mula rasa selesa.. rasa tenteram.. dh mula berasa utk lebih serius, perasaan sangsi tetap akan ada.. takut kecewa kemudian hari?? Hahaha... berilah dia masa utk fikirkan yg terbaik.. 😅
8. She’ll question you, sometimes directly, sometimes implicitly, about your feelings for her. She’ll always want to know if they are real or if she’s making things up in her head. Org sll ckp 'perempuan ni cepat perasan la... ' so, be brave to express ur feeling.. xrugi pn.. kalo perempuan tu dpt rasa keikhlasan,ketulusan dan sikap bersungguh2 awk tu... xmustahil hati dia akan terbuka utk awak.. semua tu hak Allah samaada nk bg atau tidak.. yg pemting skrg ni mencuba.. solat istikharah la dulu...
9. Expect her to be headstrong. She’ll tell you, “I’ve got this,” more than you’ll want to hear. But she’ll get used to your offers to help. And in time she’ll know how to let go of the tight grip she seems to have on everything. Looks like mcm dlm pengalaman naik gunung yg pernah sy alami.. mcm gentlemen je bila seorg lelaki offer tgn utk bantu kita panjat kwsn yg curam.. tp, sorry my ego is higher that time.. what i believe can stand the challenge, i will never need any help.. haha.. kalo tersplit sendiri nasib lah yer... 😊
10. She’ll be guarded, and she won’t be keen on letting you in. She’s waiting to see if you’re patient, she’s waiting to see if you’re worth it. She’s hoping that you’re worth it. Bersabarlah.... keep the spirit men!! Wanita yg baik utk lelaki yg baik.. jgn lekas kecewa kalau xdihargai...
11. Expect her to be stingy with trust, to only give a little bit at a time. But every time she gives you a little, it’ll feel like a big step for her. Cherish these big steps. Never brake her trust... jagalah hubungan kalian.. jgn diuji dlmnya cinta.. kelak merana..
12. She’ll come across as strong, maybe too strong for you at first. But don’t be intimidated, this is her outer shell. And when you get to know her, you’ll know she’s strong but soft; tough but kind. Mcm dlm citer 'asam pedas untuk dia' yg bapa ahmad ziyad ckp tu... perempuan ni mcm kerak nasi.. keras2 dia.. kena air lembut jugak.. hati dia pn sama.. kalau betul caranya lembut jugak.. adakah maksudnya perempuan ni mudah cair.. ?? 😅😅
13. Expect her to be reserved, at least about the things that matter. Until you really get to know her. And then you’ll see the untamed, raw, and always beautiful open version of her that she’ll let you fully discover. Hurmmm.... sama kes mcm Bersabarlah. ..
14. She’ll be slow with her vulnerabilities, and hide many of her weaknesses. And when she shows you them, she’ll feel naked. Clothe her with your words. Ego tinggi sangat... so, the only thing that work is.. find her weaknes... lol... hahaha...
15. Expect her not to need you, and not to believe in needing much of anything at all. But she’ll want you. And when she does, it’ll be the most exhilarating feeling you’ve ever experienced. Hahah.... mcm main tarik tali dlm tepung.. tepung jgn berselerak, tali jgn putus...
16. She’ll be scared – scared to be hurt, scared to love, and be loved. Scared that you’ll eventually hurt her or leave her and if and when that happens, she won’t know who she was before. Thus is the hardest things that ever happen.. jgn mainkan PERASAAN perempuan. . Sekali dia terluka.. parutnya kekal di situ bertahun2....
17. Being alone is her default, it’s her comfort zone. But expect her to fall in love with you faster than she’ll admit and in a way that isn’t loud but still powerful; it’ll be like a little bit of heaven. And it won’t matter if you love her for a while or for a lifetime; her love will change both you and her forever. Kalau sayang tinggal2kn.., be brave to help him find you... kesian dia...
